Whats Your Biggest Fear?

If someone invited you to go sky-diving, would you go?  If you were given a mic in front on 20,000 people could you hold the crowd? would you say yes? Whether it’s a fear of heights, a fear of the dark, or a fear of public speaking, we have all experienced fear.

Perhaps the biggest fear for many of us is a fear of failure.

If you asked me years ago what my biggest fear in life is, I would say "I'm scared of failing." there wasn't anything in peticular that I was scared to "fail". Maybe at the time I referenced school, a relationship, not enough making money or just life in general… 

I remember sitting there after I just blurted it out. Not even putting into thought what I was really scared at, but my mind instantly went to the worst. Failing.  

I'm glad to report that I am no longer afraid of the unknown "failing". Sure we all have our tough days .. and I really don't know exactly how I'm going to make my mark on this world, but I can confidently say that I know without a doubt I won't fail. 

To me success is a mindset - Mindset that everything happens for a reason and the world is working in your favor. Even when something doesn't go the way you planned, have the mindset that you will succeed. 

Success is knowing yourself - Know who you are, What you want and where you want to be. When you know the real you, and decide where you see your utmost fabulous self being, you can start becoming her (or him). 

Success is goals - Never stop making goals! Have a vision board, see what you want to achieve everyday. Write things down. Make lists. Keep making goals for today and goals to be completed over your lifetime. 

Success is love - Love yourself, love your friends, love your family. Theres no bigger success then someone who's surrounded by love. The love you make should be equal to the love you take. 

Success is whatever you believe it to be. Happiness, freedom, dreams coming true etc. When you know you have those in your life, you cannot fail. When you support your thoughts and dreams and have wonderful people to encourage you, thats a perfect starting to making your life a huge success.

Never let fear stop you from being who your truly meant to be. 

xx-hotbynight